BE YOURSELF

 

Most people behave differently in public and in a different way because they feel that they cannot be themselves without being judged. At least once in life there have been times when you may feel uncomfortable with your nature and feel like you can't be yourself. Fighting these internal conflicts can undermine one's self-esteem and can even cause one to feel downhearted. Celebrities are not really easy either, most of them are lost and trapped in the existing mindset but don’t really know how to differentiate their popular category from their home. Finding out who you are and who you are can come with many challenges in life but it starts with being comfortable in your skin.

When I think of social and personal identity I think of Disney star Miley Cyrus. Initially he was at the Disney station mainly for kids and that’s how his career started in the music business. When her career started, she started to grow and grew into a woman now, and she wanted to do a lot of things to grow. She felt trapped because she knew she had a bunch of little kids watching her, but Miley Cyrus on TV is not the real Miley Cyrus in real life, she is the only one when she reads the text. He found this difficult to deal with at first when he changed his mind. As the years went by, she began to feel more at ease and perhaps more relaxed that she began to show off her body on stage, making more sexual music and not really caring what people thought of her. Miley Cyrus once said: "I'm not really scared or I'm not confident about anything because I'm used to people judging me. I'm used to people beating me up, so I'm used to getting up." This is a mindset that most people do not have so it is very encouraging to hear someone so famous and great say something like this and know that we are not alone. Not only celebrities are fighting for private and public ownership, but everyone has it. It can be considered insecure. You may think that people will not accept who you really are so try to change and perhaps act like them, or act the way you think they will. Personally I have never ‘changed’ for anyone but I remember a time when I knew I was already not the group of friends I was associating with. I had just received some very bad vibes from some people and I knew they were going to talk about me behind my back about how my personality doesn’t match theirs. I just cared and I thought about how I would be able to get in without being judged but after a while you forget and just start not caring. Mentioning him is not the best feeling in the world, some people (like me) are starting to feel insecure, insecure and skeptical. You start to put yourself down and start to see your negative side rather than the positive side.

You don't have to let your insecurities, judgment define you. We have all struggled to find something about ourselves, but that should not stop us from being the people we were brought into this world to be. The famous poet Ralph Emerson once observed, “to be a man of the world always trying to do something.” Love yourself there is nothing wrong with that, loving yourself and accepting it is one of the best things you can do and experience. Once you have found them and accepted them you will not care what the next person says about you.

Judgment is normal, having an independent and social personality is normal, self-control is also common so they are not among these bad things. To allow these negative things to get worse, keep them out, never let your head down and never look back. Finding out who can come in and talk about them and maybe even disappointment. It’s your job to find comfort in your skin and to love yourself no matter what is said about you.